Would you rather be loved by everyone but broke, or be a millionaire that nobody likes?
Would you rather have 1 million Instagram followers who don’t know you or 5 real friends who would do anything for you?
Would you rather be the best player on a terrible team or the worst player on a national championship team?
Would you rather make $250k a year doing something you hate or $50,000 doing something you love?
Would you rather have unlimited money but no meaningful relationships or have incredible relationships but always struggle financially?
Would you rather live 100 years getting everything you ever wanted or live 40 years knowing your life made an eternal difference?
Would you rather be famous for something embarrassing or completely unknown but extremely successful?
Would you rather have 100 friends who always agree with you or 2 friends who tell you the truth even when it hurts?
Would you rather be the most popular person in college or the most successful person 10 years after graduation?
Would you rather have everyone know your biggest mistake or have nobody ever recognize your greatest accomplishment?
Would you rather win a national championship but never play a minute or be an All-American on a team that never wins anything?
Would you rather have $10 million in your bank account but only live 10 more years or have $50,000 a year and live another 60 years?
Would you rather be remembered as the greatest athlete in your school’s history or the person who made the biggest difference in people’s lives?
Would you rather tell the truth and lose your best friend or lie and keep the friendship forever?
Would you rather have everyone see your entire search history or hear every thought you’ve had in the last 24 hours?
Would you rather have a coach who loves you but rarely plays you or a coach who hates you but starts you every game?
Some of you just want to be liked by the people around you.
Spouse
Friends
Job
Kids someday
You don’t care about the people around you
You don’t care if your life counts for eternity because your focus is off.
Where you work- does it matter?
When you retire - does it matter?
How much money you have - does it matter?
What does matter?
1. Do you have a relationship with God and you know that he sent Jesus to save you.
2. What are you doing with that information
keeping it for yourself
Sharing it with the world
3. How do you live each day
It’s time for some of you to get real
Some of you have real stuff going on
You need God now more than ever
Commit your life to Christ right now.
Give it to god.
You need a real relationship with god
1. Galatians 1:6-10 — Stop Living for People’s Approval
Gal 1:6 A short time ago God chose you to follow him. He chose you through his grace that came through Christ. But now I am amazed that you are already turning away and believing something different from the Good News we told you.
Gal 1:7 There is no other message that is the Good News, but some people are confusing you. They want to change the Good News about Christ.
Gal 1:8 We told you the true Good News message. So anyone who tells you a different message should be condemned—even if it's one of us or even an angel from heaven!
Gal 1:9 I said this before. Now I say it again: You have already accepted the Good News. Anyone who tells you another way to be saved should be condemned!
Gal 1:10 Now do you think I am trying to make people accept me? No, God is the one I am trying to please. Am I trying to please people? If I wanted to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ
Challenge: Are you more concerned about being liked by people or being faithful to God?
2. Mark 8:34-37 — What Really Matters?
Mar 8:34 Then Jesus called the crowd and his followers to him. He said, "Any of you who want to be my follower must stop thinking about yourself and what you want. You must be willing to carry the cross that is given to you for following me.
Mar 8:35 Any of you who try to save the life you have will lose it. But you who give up your life for me and for the Good News will save it.
Mar 8:36 It is worth nothing for you to have the whole world if you yourself are lost.
Mar 8:37 You could never pay enough to buy back your life.
Challenge: You can have the money, career, relationships, and success you’ve always wanted. But what does any of it matter if you don’t know Jesus?
3. John 14:1-7 — Jesus Is the Only Way
Joh 14:1 Jesus said, "Don't be troubled. Trust in God, and trust in me.
Joh 14:2 There are many rooms in my Father's house. I would not tell you this if it were not true. I am going there to prepare a place for you.
Joh 14:3 After I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back. Then I will take you with me, so that you can be where I am.
Joh 14:4 You know the way to the place where I am going."
Joh 14:5 Thomas said, "Lord, we don't know where you are going, so how can we know the way?"
Joh 14:6 Jesus answered, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. The only way to the Father is through me.
Joh 14:7 If you really knew me, you would know my Father too. But now you know the Father. You have seen him."
“I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” (ESV)
Challenge: Being a good person won’t save you. Being successful won’t save you. Being liked won’t save you. Only Jesus can save you.